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FROM MUSLIMMATTERS.ORG
By Asharib Syed
**Editor's Note: Many of the ayahs referenced by number below are partial ayahs.
Imam Suyuti defines a verse as “Kullu ayatin wafqatun li tadabur”—“every verse is a moment of reflection, a pause for contemplation.”[1]
Qur'an is relevant today, just as it was almost 2 millennia ago. We need to learn to use it, and make it our friend throughout all stages of life, all circumstances and all experiences. Including in our student-life. Here are 22 lessons of guidance from the Qur'an for students till the end of time:
[All] praise is [due] to Allah , Lord of the worlds (1:2)
The Qur'an begins with loving appreciation and gratitude to Allah in a verse that is both grammatically timeless and speaker-less. Reminding us that whether anyone thanks Him or not, all gratitude and appreciation belong to Him.
As students in the developed world, we're some of the most collectively ungrateful creatures walking under the sun. While others would give up an arm just to hold a textbook in the other, we're complaining about everything and anything. We need to remember that foremost, if Allah has given us the time, health, faculties of thought and opportunity to be in school—any school—it's our job to show a bit of appreciation and gratitude. As Allah says,
And [remember] when your Lord proclaimed, 'If you are grateful, I will surely increase you [in favor]….(14:7)
The more grateful we are for our professors, our classmates, the cafeteria food, the boring mandatory courses—the more Allah will bless our journey in ways we can't imagine. Students in Gaza have missile holes where their blackboards are, STOP COMPLAINING — let's be grateful for our professors, our education, our degree, our marks and our experience.
Pro tip: Say “Alḥamdulilāh” whenever you're angry or upset at school related issues. Given how frustrating student life is, making “Alḥamdulilāh” a part of your daily vocabulary means a whole lot of blessings will be coming your way!
And I did not create the jinn and mankind except to worship Me. (51:56)
Surprise of the century: This relates to everything in student life too. Every boring assignment, every 8:30 AM class with a less-than-articulate professor, every sleepless night—there's a reason for the madness. As students, our habits define our experiences. Take a moment to step back and dream big. Why are you here? This is one question that won't be asked in any multiple choice exam, but one that you should ask yourself often.
Islam encourages you to dream big. School tells you what the world can give you, Islam asks you what you can give to the world. Dream big and don't let anyone tell you otherwise, as your rewards are based on the audacity, ambition and depth of your dreams.
Maybe you want to save the world, end poverty, protect the world from financial crisis—or maybe you just want a halal job, to settle down, raise a family and provide for your parents. Both are respectable and worthwhile intentions to make our student experience worship. Yes, even your Google search becomes worship with the right intention.
Islam literally means submission, and part of this submission means to acknowledge that your entire existence is 'ibādah — worship of Allah.
Say, “Indeed, my prayer, my rites of sacrifice, my living and my dying are for Allah , Lord of the worlds.” (6:162)
Pro Tip: Write down one simple goal (get a job, retire parents, raise a pious family), one medium-level goal (start a small business, build a masjid, lead local da'wah efforts), and one epic-level goal (start the next global corporation to empower world's developing nation, build hospitals across war-torn lands, establish the state of Palestine through peaceful diplomacy and partnership, build networks of orphanages, etc.)
Just as when European aristocrats sent the best of their society to learn from Muslim academics in Andalus at a time when Europe was plunged in dark ages; when Muslim cities were geographies of learning and the pursuit of curiosity; the world sought knowledge through the vessel of Islamic scholarship, now, it's our responsibility to continue this tradition of learning and curiosity as a continuation of the theme of “اقْرَأْ.”
Prophet Muhammed was commanded to say,
My Lord Increase me, and increase me in knowledge. (20:114)
Grammarians have noted that the actual du'a is a prayer not just for an increase in knowledge, but an increase in general. Suggesting that knowledge makes you a better human, a better father, a better husband, a better mother, a better individual in society.
Pro Tip: Paradigm shift—try to squeeze a lesson out of every lemon of a situation. Can't understand your prof's accent or teaching style in advanced chemistry? Well, you may not learn chemistry but at least you learned how to give effective presentations!
Spend the night awake in prayer, except for a little bit of sleep. (73:2)
Allah is teaching the Prophet that when you have a purpose, you must be dedicated, sleeplessly striving for your vision. When you're driven with intention, Allah tells us we don't have time to sleep. You're living to make your dreams a reality, while others are sleeping to glimpse at dreams during the night.
We also learn dedication from the story of Nuh :
He said, “My Lord, indeed I invited my people [to truth] night and day.” (71:5)
When studying is worship, when you have a goal, when you have a mission—Islam teaches us through the stories of the Prophets that we must persevere and sleeplessly struggle for our dreams.
Pro Tip: Whatever your level of dedication, hustle to commitment: raise your bar higher. Ask, what can you do (or not do) to make yourself more successful? Maybe taking 45 minute showers isn't that productive? Or maybe you can survive on 5-6 hours of sleep?
And thus, Allah established Yusuf on Earth. (12:21)
Allah is saying Yusuf could only become the king through first spending time at the bottom of a well. Likewise, the pain, trauma and the boredom – it may not make sense now, but it may be the source of unimaginable prosperity in the future.
Similarly: just as when the mother of Moses threw her son into a river, not knowing why or where he'll go and risking it all—Allah said:
So that you may grow and raise up under my eyes (20:39)
Allah had a plan for baby Musa , just as he has a plan for you and me. We must be patient for that plan to unfold, and trust in Allah when things don't make sense in the short term.
Pro Tip: Stay the course. Allah's got you covered, it may not make sense now, but know that Allah's got your back—just as he did for baby Musa , only to escape death and be raised as a prince in the palace of his killer, to liberate an entire nation; and just as he took Yusuf from the bottom of the well to becoming the Prince of Egypt.
So go to that mandatory social science class with your head high, having no idea why you're there—but having the certainty that it'll make sense sometime in the future.
We will test you, both through difficulty and ease. (21:35).
Rolling on Cloud 9 with smooth winds? Or barely lifting off the troughs from Mississauga Valley? Good times and hard times are a test.
Pro Tip: Just as your university test is a test: your reaction, your patience and how you deal with that test—is a test in itself.
If you are conscious of Allah, Allah will give you knowledge. He will teach you. (2:282)
He will help you, if you are conscious of Him. Stay away from things for His pleasure, and do things for Allah's sake—and Allah will teach you. Feeling the burden? Worried about impossible situations and difficulty? Taqwa - yourself up. As Allah says:
Whoever is conscious of Allah, Allah will make a way out for them. (65:2)
Pro Tip: All you need is Taqwa. The impossible can become the possible, and Allah can help you out in ways you could never have imagined.
Pro Tip: Whenever you're walking (which is a lot if you're actually on campus, and not skipping class) make it a habit to say Astaghfirullāh. Before your test, while studying, just keep sayingAstaghfirullāh, “I repent to Allah.” Don't leave an empty second.
Pro Tip: Have your phone, book, or magazine in-hand while walking around campus or between classes. Even playing that horrific Flappy Birds game can be rewarding. Pretend to check the time on your watch, ridiculously often.
They break what Allah has enjoined (2:27)
which includes family ties and duties.
Pro Tip: If you want barakah, blessings, in your studies, be nice to your parents and do the chores; nothing like acing that exam by making your mother smile.
We only lived for a day, or part of a day. (23:113)
The Qur'an tells us that our life will fly by, just like this exam period will fly by. Our exam period, or semester is a metaphor to our life on earth—there's a beginning and there's an end. So just as there's “life after death” and that's what we're looking forward to—remember, there is “life after exams,” and that's what you're looking forward to.
Pro Tip: Have a plan, have a schedule, and use your time wisely.
And they who turn away from anything that's not important, wasteful. (23:3)
Know what your weaknesses are, where your time gets lost, when and with whom. Allah also mentions a gentlemen's (or gentlewomen's) caveat, they:
Turn away honourably, with poise and elegant dignity. (25:72)
Pro Tip: You can't call-out your friends and family as a waste of time and space, you must leave gatherings and situations while maintaining elegance and kindness.
And mankind was created weak (4:28)
Pro Tip: We are a creation that is weak and forgetful (In fact the word Insaan meaning “mankind,” is a hyperbolized form of 'someone that forgets' a lot)—therefore, it's our job to review, repeat and re-read constantly.
Only Allah is perfect and doesn't forget,
And your lord does not forget. (19:64)
Musa asks his teacher Khidr, “Can I follow you to learn from what you've been taught?” (18:66)
Pro Tip: We learn humility, patience, and respect from the Qur'an for our teachers. Of course, this comes in particularly beneficial when negotiating marks and receiving recommendations.
And ask the people who remember, if you do not know yourself (16:43)
Pro Tip: To really test the depth of your knowledge, ask deeper questions. 'Rattle the cages' of assumptions, test the limits of theories and contemplate on alternative approaches.
And Allah will help those who help Him. Indeed, Allah is Powerful and Exalted in Might. (22:40)
Pro Tip: If you're intention is to help others for the sake of Allah, as part of being a good Muslim and for the sake of Islam—then Allah will help you out. (Now don't be helping a sister at 10pm alone on campus, just to show how righteous Muslims really are!)
Above every knowledgeable person, is someone with more knowledge. (12:76)
Your mind, your memory, your marks, your GPA, your whatever—it's all from Allah. Just as you didn't choose to be born with a nose on your face and not on your toes, you didn't select your inborn talents.
Is not hell the [proper] abode for all who [thus] deny the truth (29:68)
Pro Tip: Know your place and don't get arrogant with what you know.
He said I only complain, cry, beg and plea to Allah about my circumstance (12:86)
Let this exam period be a chance for you to cry before Allah, talk to him and complain to him about your worries and fears—don't complain in front of others. Sometimes Allah sends things in your life, only so you can turn back towards Allah. He misses your voice and wants you to call Him in times of difficulty and happiness.
Pro Tip: Complain to Allah, not to others.
There is no God but Allah, how perfect is He, I'm definitely among the wrongdoers. (21:87)
Immediately thereafter, Allah responded and saved his troubled slave from an impossible situation.
Allah teaches us that just as he helped Yunus out of an impossibly difficult circumstance, likewise He can make a way out for us.
Allah tells Musa :
Allah said: Don't fear, you are victorious. (20:68)
Just as Allah told Musa to let go of his human emotion of fear, and trust in Allah when facing a tyrant and his magicians; likewise, remember that Allah is telling us to leave our fears aside, accept our helplessness and surrender our frailty to the limitlessness of Allah.
Pro Tip: Study hard and then trust in Allah to help you through it.
And the life of the world is nothing but a temporary deception. (3:185)
Allah puts our exams into perspective: it's nothing but a temporary deception. In the long run, it probably won't matter as much as it does right now. So take it with a grain of salt and trust Allah, it'll be okay. Inshā'Allāh. Be patient. Breathe.
And what is to come later, is better than what came before.” (93:4)
This verse can be translated to reflect several layers of meaning. I articulated it relevant to this context as the verse is capacious to such an application.
Pro Tip: Maintain your perspective. Realize your exams aren't the end of the world.
Allah extends rizq (rizq could include provisions like wealth, jobs, and by extension even marks) to whoever he wants; and He gives in perfect, calculated measure (limiting it to others that He chooses). (13:26)
Sometimes if it's not meant to be, it's not meant to be. Islam is beautiful and perfect, the education system is not. Allah is so merciful He knows the outcomes are beyond our control, that's why you're only judged based on your efforts and your intentions.
Pro Tip: Don't be harsh on yourself. Do your best and leave the rest to Allah. And always sayAlḥamdulilāh.
So who else besides Allah, can help the one in difficulty, and alleviate from him the pain, suffering and harm? (27:62)
Du'ā' is an experience when a slave recognizes his helplessness, his inability, his powerless and his desperate need for the one who is limitless, Allah.
I end off with the du'ā' of Zakariya , a du'ā' of impossibility and faith, of patience and trust, of hope and positive expectations,
And I will never, in prayer to you my Beloved Lord, lose hope.” (19:4)
Pro-Tip: A measure of your relationship to Allah is your du'ā'. A lover never gets tired of conversing with their beloved, so ask yourself how often and for how long do you make du'ā'? Set aside quality time daily for du'a.
A concluding lesson about Qur'an: It's relevant. It's our guide. It's our buddy, our friend that never leaves us. It's there for us, but the question is are we there by it?
I encourage everyone to not lose hope. Trust in Allah, and be patient. As Allah says, “Fathkuroonee, athkurkum, washkuroo lee walaa takfuroon”—“remember me, Allah, and I'll remember you. Be grateful to me and don't disbelieve, don't be ungrateful.”
If you benefitted even a bit, don't forget this little brother of yours in your du'a. Jazakallah Khayr.
[1] Al Itqqaaan Fil Uloomil Qur'an, imam Suyuti
[2] Lowering the Gaze, 'al-Muntaqâ min Ighâthatul Lufhân fî Masâyid ash-Shaytân' [pp.'s 102-105], of Ibn al-Qayyim, summarised by 'Alî Hasan al-Halabi (find the pdf online, it's in English and its awesome motivation to lower our gaze).
FROM MUSLIMMATTERS.ORG
By Asharib Syed
**Editor's Note: Many of the ayahs referenced by number below are partial ayahs.
Imam Suyuti defines a verse as “Kullu ayatin wafqatun li tadabur”—“every verse is a moment of reflection, a pause for contemplation.”[1]
Qur'an is relevant today, just as it was almost 2 millennia ago. We need to learn to use it, and make it our friend throughout all stages of life, all circumstances and all experiences. Including in our student-life. Here are 22 lessons of guidance from the Qur'an for students till the end of time:
- Gratitude
[All] praise is [due] to Allah , Lord of the worlds (1:2)
The Qur'an begins with loving appreciation and gratitude to Allah in a verse that is both grammatically timeless and speaker-less. Reminding us that whether anyone thanks Him or not, all gratitude and appreciation belong to Him.
As students in the developed world, we're some of the most collectively ungrateful creatures walking under the sun. While others would give up an arm just to hold a textbook in the other, we're complaining about everything and anything. We need to remember that foremost, if Allah has given us the time, health, faculties of thought and opportunity to be in school—any school—it's our job to show a bit of appreciation and gratitude. As Allah says,
And [remember] when your Lord proclaimed, 'If you are grateful, I will surely increase you [in favor]….(14:7)
The more grateful we are for our professors, our classmates, the cafeteria food, the boring mandatory courses—the more Allah will bless our journey in ways we can't imagine. Students in Gaza have missile holes where their blackboards are, STOP COMPLAINING — let's be grateful for our professors, our education, our degree, our marks and our experience.
Pro tip: Say “Alḥamdulilāh” whenever you're angry or upset at school related issues. Given how frustrating student life is, making “Alḥamdulilāh” a part of your daily vocabulary means a whole lot of blessings will be coming your way!
- Intention
And I did not create the jinn and mankind except to worship Me. (51:56)
Surprise of the century: This relates to everything in student life too. Every boring assignment, every 8:30 AM class with a less-than-articulate professor, every sleepless night—there's a reason for the madness. As students, our habits define our experiences. Take a moment to step back and dream big. Why are you here? This is one question that won't be asked in any multiple choice exam, but one that you should ask yourself often.
Islam encourages you to dream big. School tells you what the world can give you, Islam asks you what you can give to the world. Dream big and don't let anyone tell you otherwise, as your rewards are based on the audacity, ambition and depth of your dreams.
Maybe you want to save the world, end poverty, protect the world from financial crisis—or maybe you just want a halal job, to settle down, raise a family and provide for your parents. Both are respectable and worthwhile intentions to make our student experience worship. Yes, even your Google search becomes worship with the right intention.
Islam literally means submission, and part of this submission means to acknowledge that your entire existence is 'ibādah — worship of Allah.
Say, “Indeed, my prayer, my rites of sacrifice, my living and my dying are for Allah , Lord of the worlds.” (6:162)
Pro Tip: Write down one simple goal (get a job, retire parents, raise a pious family), one medium-level goal (start a small business, build a masjid, lead local da'wah efforts), and one epic-level goal (start the next global corporation to empower world's developing nation, build hospitals across war-torn lands, establish the state of Palestine through peaceful diplomacy and partnership, build networks of orphanages, etc.)
- Seek Knowledge
Just as when European aristocrats sent the best of their society to learn from Muslim academics in Andalus at a time when Europe was plunged in dark ages; when Muslim cities were geographies of learning and the pursuit of curiosity; the world sought knowledge through the vessel of Islamic scholarship, now, it's our responsibility to continue this tradition of learning and curiosity as a continuation of the theme of “اقْرَأْ.”
Prophet Muhammed was commanded to say,
My Lord Increase me, and increase me in knowledge. (20:114)
Grammarians have noted that the actual du'a is a prayer not just for an increase in knowledge, but an increase in general. Suggesting that knowledge makes you a better human, a better father, a better husband, a better mother, a better individual in society.
Pro Tip: Paradigm shift—try to squeeze a lesson out of every lemon of a situation. Can't understand your prof's accent or teaching style in advanced chemistry? Well, you may not learn chemistry but at least you learned how to give effective presentations!
- Hard Work, Dedication, and Patience
Spend the night awake in prayer, except for a little bit of sleep. (73:2)
Allah is teaching the Prophet that when you have a purpose, you must be dedicated, sleeplessly striving for your vision. When you're driven with intention, Allah tells us we don't have time to sleep. You're living to make your dreams a reality, while others are sleeping to glimpse at dreams during the night.
We also learn dedication from the story of Nuh :
He said, “My Lord, indeed I invited my people [to truth] night and day.” (71:5)
When studying is worship, when you have a goal, when you have a mission—Islam teaches us through the stories of the Prophets that we must persevere and sleeplessly struggle for our dreams.
Pro Tip: Whatever your level of dedication, hustle to commitment: raise your bar higher. Ask, what can you do (or not do) to make yourself more successful? Maybe taking 45 minute showers isn't that productive? Or maybe you can survive on 5-6 hours of sleep?
- Sometimes it Doesn't Make Sense
And thus, Allah established Yusuf on Earth. (12:21)
Allah is saying Yusuf could only become the king through first spending time at the bottom of a well. Likewise, the pain, trauma and the boredom – it may not make sense now, but it may be the source of unimaginable prosperity in the future.
Similarly: just as when the mother of Moses threw her son into a river, not knowing why or where he'll go and risking it all—Allah said:
So that you may grow and raise up under my eyes (20:39)
Allah had a plan for baby Musa , just as he has a plan for you and me. We must be patient for that plan to unfold, and trust in Allah when things don't make sense in the short term.
Pro Tip: Stay the course. Allah's got you covered, it may not make sense now, but know that Allah's got your back—just as he did for baby Musa , only to escape death and be raised as a prince in the palace of his killer, to liberate an entire nation; and just as he took Yusuf from the bottom of the well to becoming the Prince of Egypt.
So go to that mandatory social science class with your head high, having no idea why you're there—but having the certainty that it'll make sense sometime in the future.
- It's a Fitnah
We will test you, both through difficulty and ease. (21:35).
Rolling on Cloud 9 with smooth winds? Or barely lifting off the troughs from Mississauga Valley? Good times and hard times are a test.
Pro Tip: Just as your university test is a test: your reaction, your patience and how you deal with that test—is a test in itself.
- Get Taqwa = Get Knowledge
If you are conscious of Allah, Allah will give you knowledge. He will teach you. (2:282)
He will help you, if you are conscious of Him. Stay away from things for His pleasure, and do things for Allah's sake—and Allah will teach you. Feeling the burden? Worried about impossible situations and difficulty? Taqwa - yourself up. As Allah says:
Whoever is conscious of Allah, Allah will make a way out for them. (65:2)
Pro Tip: All you need is Taqwa. The impossible can become the possible, and Allah can help you out in ways you could never have imagined.
- Repent, do Istikhfaar, say Astaghfirullāh
Pro Tip: Whenever you're walking (which is a lot if you're actually on campus, and not skipping class) make it a habit to say Astaghfirullāh. Before your test, while studying, just keep sayingAstaghfirullāh, “I repent to Allah.” Don't leave an empty second.
- Lower Your Gaze = Get Insight
Pro Tip: Have your phone, book, or magazine in-hand while walking around campus or between classes. Even playing that horrific Flappy Birds game can be rewarding. Pretend to check the time on your watch, ridiculously often.
- Keep Good Relations with Family and Fulfill Obligations
They break what Allah has enjoined (2:27)
which includes family ties and duties.
Pro Tip: If you want barakah, blessings, in your studies, be nice to your parents and do the chores; nothing like acing that exam by making your mother smile.
- Manage Your Time
We only lived for a day, or part of a day. (23:113)
The Qur'an tells us that our life will fly by, just like this exam period will fly by. Our exam period, or semester is a metaphor to our life on earth—there's a beginning and there's an end. So just as there's “life after death” and that's what we're looking forward to—remember, there is “life after exams,” and that's what you're looking forward to.
Pro Tip: Have a plan, have a schedule, and use your time wisely.
- Don't get Distracted — Turn Away
And they who turn away from anything that's not important, wasteful. (23:3)
Know what your weaknesses are, where your time gets lost, when and with whom. Allah also mentions a gentlemen's (or gentlewomen's) caveat, they:
Turn away honourably, with poise and elegant dignity. (25:72)
Pro Tip: You can't call-out your friends and family as a waste of time and space, you must leave gatherings and situations while maintaining elegance and kindness.
- Repeat and Review
And mankind was created weak (4:28)
Pro Tip: We are a creation that is weak and forgetful (In fact the word Insaan meaning “mankind,” is a hyperbolized form of 'someone that forgets' a lot)—therefore, it's our job to review, repeat and re-read constantly.
Only Allah is perfect and doesn't forget,
And your lord does not forget. (19:64)
- Keep Good Relations with Your Teachers
Musa asks his teacher Khidr, “Can I follow you to learn from what you've been taught?” (18:66)
Pro Tip: We learn humility, patience, and respect from the Qur'an for our teachers. Of course, this comes in particularly beneficial when negotiating marks and receiving recommendations.
- Get Help, Study Together
And ask the people who remember, if you do not know yourself (16:43)
Pro Tip: To really test the depth of your knowledge, ask deeper questions. 'Rattle the cages' of assumptions, test the limits of theories and contemplate on alternative approaches.
- Help Others
And Allah will help those who help Him. Indeed, Allah is Powerful and Exalted in Might. (22:40)
Pro Tip: If you're intention is to help others for the sake of Allah, as part of being a good Muslim and for the sake of Islam—then Allah will help you out. (Now don't be helping a sister at 10pm alone on campus, just to show how righteous Muslims really are!)
- Eliminate Your Ego and Arrogance
Above every knowledgeable person, is someone with more knowledge. (12:76)
Your mind, your memory, your marks, your GPA, your whatever—it's all from Allah. Just as you didn't choose to be born with a nose on your face and not on your toes, you didn't select your inborn talents.
Is not hell the [proper] abode for all who [thus] deny the truth (29:68)
Pro Tip: Know your place and don't get arrogant with what you know.
- Complain to Allah
He said I only complain, cry, beg and plea to Allah about my circumstance (12:86)
Let this exam period be a chance for you to cry before Allah, talk to him and complain to him about your worries and fears—don't complain in front of others. Sometimes Allah sends things in your life, only so you can turn back towards Allah. He misses your voice and wants you to call Him in times of difficulty and happiness.
Pro Tip: Complain to Allah, not to others.
- Trust in Allah
There is no God but Allah, how perfect is He, I'm definitely among the wrongdoers. (21:87)
Immediately thereafter, Allah responded and saved his troubled slave from an impossible situation.
Allah teaches us that just as he helped Yunus out of an impossibly difficult circumstance, likewise He can make a way out for us.
Allah tells Musa :
Allah said: Don't fear, you are victorious. (20:68)
Just as Allah told Musa to let go of his human emotion of fear, and trust in Allah when facing a tyrant and his magicians; likewise, remember that Allah is telling us to leave our fears aside, accept our helplessness and surrender our frailty to the limitlessness of Allah.
Pro Tip: Study hard and then trust in Allah to help you through it.
- Put Things in Perspective
And the life of the world is nothing but a temporary deception. (3:185)
Allah puts our exams into perspective: it's nothing but a temporary deception. In the long run, it probably won't matter as much as it does right now. So take it with a grain of salt and trust Allah, it'll be okay. Inshā'Allāh. Be patient. Breathe.
And what is to come later, is better than what came before.” (93:4)
This verse can be translated to reflect several layers of meaning. I articulated it relevant to this context as the verse is capacious to such an application.
Pro Tip: Maintain your perspective. Realize your exams aren't the end of the world.
- Accept Qadar
Allah extends rizq (rizq could include provisions like wealth, jobs, and by extension even marks) to whoever he wants; and He gives in perfect, calculated measure (limiting it to others that He chooses). (13:26)
Sometimes if it's not meant to be, it's not meant to be. Islam is beautiful and perfect, the education system is not. Allah is so merciful He knows the outcomes are beyond our control, that's why you're only judged based on your efforts and your intentions.
Pro Tip: Don't be harsh on yourself. Do your best and leave the rest to Allah. And always sayAlḥamdulilāh.
- Make Du'ā'
So who else besides Allah, can help the one in difficulty, and alleviate from him the pain, suffering and harm? (27:62)
Du'ā' is an experience when a slave recognizes his helplessness, his inability, his powerless and his desperate need for the one who is limitless, Allah.
I end off with the du'ā' of Zakariya , a du'ā' of impossibility and faith, of patience and trust, of hope and positive expectations,
And I will never, in prayer to you my Beloved Lord, lose hope.” (19:4)
Pro-Tip: A measure of your relationship to Allah is your du'ā'. A lover never gets tired of conversing with their beloved, so ask yourself how often and for how long do you make du'ā'? Set aside quality time daily for du'a.
A concluding lesson about Qur'an: It's relevant. It's our guide. It's our buddy, our friend that never leaves us. It's there for us, but the question is are we there by it?
I encourage everyone to not lose hope. Trust in Allah, and be patient. As Allah says, “Fathkuroonee, athkurkum, washkuroo lee walaa takfuroon”—“remember me, Allah, and I'll remember you. Be grateful to me and don't disbelieve, don't be ungrateful.”
If you benefitted even a bit, don't forget this little brother of yours in your du'a. Jazakallah Khayr.
[1] Al Itqqaaan Fil Uloomil Qur'an, imam Suyuti
[2] Lowering the Gaze, 'al-Muntaqâ min Ighâthatul Lufhân fî Masâyid ash-Shaytân' [pp.'s 102-105], of Ibn al-Qayyim, summarised by 'Alî Hasan al-Halabi (find the pdf online, it's in English and its awesome motivation to lower our gaze).
FROM MUSLIMMATTERS.ORG